My First blog entry on LECINQBLOG

This is my first Blog entry on here.Today is October 2012,the 11th.
I started filling out the ABOUT ME section in my profile and suddenly realized that it was far too long and thus it qualifies to sit here on the LE CINQ BLOG.
Here goes
Physician-
Portrait Artist(charcoal and pencil sketch portraits),
Motorbike and Bicycle enthusiast(I always wear a helmet and protective gear while riding a bike.I have been riding a bicycle since the age of10/11 and a motorbike since I was 12-YEAH ,12.So that means i have been a bike rider for nearly 20 years now.It shows too,superb balance, and a few minor bike accidents too ),
Woman,Beautiful(arguably so.I am not quite AS PROUD of my looks as I am of my intelligence.I am mostly not so mindful of my looks at all.I quite forget and sometimes even question my beauty.But, people remind me quite often about my looks by focusing on it too much.Each time I meet someone for the first time, all they are focusing  on is my looks and somehow automatically they come to the conclusion that I am this naive pretty teenager who won't know the difference even if they molest me and get away with it.They also come to the conclusion that because I am pretty , I am not that intelligent. and even if i am a wee bit intelligent I am not super super intelligent.THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER is I scored super high on my IQ tests that I took somewhere around tenth grade.The results told me that I COULD CHOOSE ANY DAMN PROFESSION I WANT TO because I AM JUST AS SMART in every given thing.I scored the top honors in science and math and arts and social studies and sports that year.and most other years in school.One particular year in school however, I almost wetted my seat and almost nearly failed in all subject.Why and how, you ask?well.THAT IS A WHOLE OTHER BLOG ENTRY.)
Confident,(MY confidence comes from self-awareness and proper self-understanding.Accuracy in understanding the truth about oneself is very very important in life)
Ethical (I weigh things a thousand times before doing them.Ethics is very important to me)
Environmentally conscious(save water,save electricity,waste not-want not,never waste food, recycle stuff,rain harvesting,wind energy and such similar efforts-totally THE WORKS I say!
Single and Looking for kindred spirits,(Don't believe in one-night stands,Believe in relationships between equals,intellectual , spiritual and emotional equals,equal chores, equal benefits,good emotional cushioning and intellectual sharing are key to a great relationship)
Non smoking,(smoking kills, causes cancer and nicotine is an addictive substance-addiction is a weakness and liability in one's life)
Non drinking(Again, Alcohol kills,Alcohol ruins the body and mind and again, alcohol is an addictive substance)
Non drug using(Only people wanting to numb the pain will take drugs, drugs are addictive and mind altering and they ruin health and relationships and yet again they are addictive and addictions are LIABILITIES in life-Face the fear , face life without numbing it with drugs, FACE IT ALL IN NAKEDNESS I say!)
Non meat eating( Have been ovo lacto vegetarian since birth, became vegan sometime in 2009,have a vegetarian blog too.EThics plays a great role in me continuing to be a vegetarian , but just to mention that me BEING BROUGHT UP vegetarian really really helped the cause as a whole!)
, Leanoardo da vinci Re-incarnate(just a figure of speech,I don't believe in reincarnation or god or zodiacs),
Inspired By MADAM CURIE (This lady amidst utter poverty and universities refusing to admit female students, fought for it all, studies physics and chemistry for the pure thirst of knowledge, discovered radium, married a smart guy, recieved the NOBEL prize,gave birth to a daughter , who also won the NOBEL prize, and finally due to constant radiation exposure as part of her research and studies, died for a noble cause due to radiation related ailments.To see current day girls not respect their rights to education, or rights to anything else, and girls who are anorexic and not bothering to go to college or be economically independant, SHAME ON YOUR ALL, YOU IDIOTS.)
,Have a lil bit of Mother theresa and Gandhi in me(undeniably so),(No matter who the other person, I just cannot stand to see people cry, or any living organism wilt and be sad.LIFE IS FOR LIVING. I don't want to see anyone unhappy.Happiness is a wave, we are happy, we make others happy.Similarly others' unhappiness will finally affect us too.I have found myself reaching out to utter monsters just coz I see them very sad. Utter monsters who were in the past extremely unkind to me for no reason..Yet, just that LIL BIT OF MOTHER THERESA will not allow me to be NONCHALANT to these monsters even.)

I Believe in equal rights for all human beings,
Genders are equal(different biologically and slightly unequal when it comes to procreation, but very very equal otherwise).
I believe that we are all human, we all laugh, we all cry, we all get hungry .
I think sex is beautiful but only when it happens spontaneously in the realms of extreme passion, and excitement.Not like the routine pointless kissing and the routine sex which is more akin to MUTUAL MASTURBATION.
I don't think MARRIAGE is necessary to have sex or to have children with someone you love.Marriage can be fun and fine and beautiful but love is the most important.
I know a lot of FRAUD, POINTLESS, MEANINGLESS, UNFULFILLED MARRIAGESwhere there is only a relationship on paper and ABSOLUTELY NOTHING ELSE.I also know a lot of people who love each other, no marriage in sight and yet are very fulfilled.I also have seen extremely FUNCTIONAL AND FRUITFUL MARRIAGES.I know of gay men marrying women and yet everyday loving another man in their head.I know lesbian women getting married , having daughters and forever not being able to share their love for other women.

Therefore ,TO EACH ONE THEIR OWN, but marriage or not, EXCLUSIVITY IN SEX AND ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS IS VERY VERY IMPORTANT TO ME...A human being has only one penis and one vagina..so, one sexual partner is adequate , no? (hermaphrodites have both , or none or ambiguous genitalia, and homesexuals especially males might look for other complementary places to perform copulation, but these are all topics for other blog entries).BTW, EACH OF US HAS JUST ONE MIND..AND just one person to occupy our SINGLE brain is enough, no?Emotions and love are MONOGAMOUS, more than you think they are.There is only one place for one person up there in the head at a given point of time

btw, WHAT DO i THINK OF HOMESEXUALITY? it is A VERY BIG TOPIC, especially when it comes to the biology of it, sociology of it, hormones of it, physiology of it, emotions of it and such..THERE ARE MANY MANY VARIETY OF SUCH RELATIONSHIPS DUE TO A VARIETY OF REASONS OR CAUSES..cannot put them all under one header and tell you what I think of it...

But if TWO ADULT(READ ADULT)BEINGS want to have a respectful meaningful, exclusive fruitful relationship, which possibly involves sex ,which doesn't affect any third party in any given way, then WELL, THEY HAVE A RIGHT TO PARTAKE OF SUCH A RELATIONSHIP, NO?

SEXUAL RELATIONS with minors ,Whether heterosexual or homosexual, is generally AN UNEQUAL RELATIONSHIP in my opinion and amounts to SEXUAL ABUSE...

Abuse of any kind is FROWNED UPON by me..I hate abusers,,abusers of any kind.

BTW, JUST FYI,

I am a heterosexual female surgeon, looking for a un-ambiguously HETEROSEXUAL MALE with similar values(just making it clear as to what I mean when I say I am single and looking)

Speaking of sex , THE TOPIC OF PORN comes along..
Too much PORN ADDICTION going on in this world these days.Porn is this MIND-ESCAPE warp place, a place to go mindless and  get warped out.no?
I think PORN works as this ESCAPIST DRUG WHich strangely HELPS TO DE STRESS and then makes you a mindless moron , a robot of sorts.
I think PORN ruins NATURAL SPONTANEOUS LOVE FILLED EMOTIONAL SEX. Porn also exploits poverty of the porn actors and monetarily exploits the addiction of human  instincts and FALSELY CONDITIONS humans to treat sex as a performance sport rather than a spontaneous effort of love exchange.

BTW..COMING BACK TO MEDICINE AND MY PASSIONS IN LIFE
I am a fantastic surgeon(if I may say so myself)did a lot of hard work to get there.Lots of studying,lots of med school,lot of dedication and passion to learn,lot of practice to hone skills,thirst for learning.

I CAN VERY EASILY DESCRIBE "MEDICINE" as the love of my life.I pride myself on my diagnostic skills as well.Diagnosis is the key to great medicine.You diagnose wrong, no matter how good you are at everything else, the treatment will fail.DUH!

I am great with my hand skills, hence , I love embroidery,sewing,knitting and other hand works just as much as I love surgery.Just get me anything creative and I am happy, Just get me anything scientifically driven I am even more happy to work on it.

I have been a blogger since 2000.Have had an email account as far back as 1997..yeah,very internet savvy, yet ,sometimes I struggle with troublemakers-ya know the people who try to put worms and trojans into your accounts,those that try to put keyloggers into your system,jobless folks who sit and write cross scripting xss scripts just to steal info from your page.SEriously, don't these fuckers have anything else to do? scum of the earth in my opinion.
I hate SNEAKY NOSY people,
I hate People who lie behind your back , gossip about you to third parties and yet have the gall to come and chat you up with a poker face.
I hate mediocre people.People who don't want to put the effort in to do their best.They want to laze around and be mediocre at what they do,they do everything half-assed and half-hearted,and yet are deeply insecure when they see someone who does a good job .
I hate plagiarists and loathe UN-ORIGINAL PEOPLE.When I say SNEAKY,I mean people who have no respect for your privacy and would read up your private journal without your knowledge if given half a chance of not being found out.
I hate SNEAKY people as in, people who will hide your snail mail(thank science for EMAIL)and pretend like the mail never arrived even.
When I say sneaky, I also mean people who lie and lie to you with no sense of responsibility or guilt and then because of how much they lie to others they end up having little trust in anything anyone else says either because they are deeply aware of the possibility of how much lying is possible.
I have been blogging on BLOGGER since 2008.
I used to blog on other platforms prior to that from 2000-2008
Writing comes naturally and spontaneously to me.I regard my writing as HIGHLY ORIGINAL, highly interesting and highly AUTHENTIC in terms of VIEWPOINT.
Being able to type at a super speed helps me keep up with my mind thoughts and thus put them out on the screen or keyboard just as fast as they appear in my head.Most of my blog entries are FIRST DRAFTS OR not edited in any given way..I think MY FIRST DRAFTS ARE MY BEST DRAFTS.

People often believe in CLICHES..I HATE CLICHES.
People think pretty people are not smart or smart people cannot be pretty..I know a LOT OF PEOPLE who are both extremely intelligent and quite good looking.MYTH BUSTED
People stereotype communities....WELL, social conditioning does matter in determining how a human approaches issues,but then ,why not give everyone a WEE BENEFIT OF DOUBT FOR ORIGINALITY.
Being open minded is very important in life...
Wanting to learn a new thing every single day in life is very very important.
STopping to being UTTERLY PETTY and self oriented is very very important.
Learning to see the bigger picture is very very important.